Trigger Warning: This article discusses topics related to emotional and psychological abuse, which may be distressing for some readers. Please take care of yourself as you engage with this content, and consider reaching out to a trusted support network if needed. If you're here, it's likely because you've felt the intense push-and-pull of a relationship that leaves you questioning your own worth. The confusion, the fleeting moments of joy amidst a sea of pain – this isn't your fault. It's a trauma bond , especially damaging when entangled with a narcissist . Breaking free is one of the most challenging things you’ll ever do, but it’s also one of the most liberating. Let’s walk through this journey together. Trauma Bond with a Narcissist When a trauma bond forms with a narcissist, the dynamics become particularly toxic and damaging. Narcissists exhibit a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy. These traits make them especially...
An intrusive thought is an unwelcome, involuntary thought, image, or unpleasant idea that may become an obsession, is upsetting or distressing, and can feel difficult to manage or eliminate. (source: Wikipedia ) Common examples of intrusive thoughts include unwanted, intrusive thoughts about the safety of oneself or others, causing distress, and thoughts of performing dangerous actions. These thoughts may lead to negative behaviors, which may increase vulnerability to future experiences of trauma. Intrusive thoughts have been linked to recent life stress, sleep deprivation, prior anxiety, and childhood abuse. The state of depression , suicidal ideation, or anxiety may also be caused by the release of stress hormones. Analysis of studies in subjects who had experienced prolonged periods of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) found that intrusive thoughts and flashbacks are associated with greater than 50% of symptoms, especially memory fragmentation. Intrusive thoughts often occur ...