How to Stop Worrying and Start Living How do you stop worrying from sucking your energy and ruining your life? Well, it's quite easy. The magic solution is to stop worrying. Well it may seem downright impossible. After all, worrying comes naturally. It's what humans do. That worry bug will be persistent. So every time it bites you, crush it. All you need is some practice, a dash of determination and a pinch of commitment. I used to believe that worrying was my way of problem-solving. I would spend countless hours working through every scenario. (My problem-solving usually involved backup plans in case the first plan didn't pan out.) Well, this was endlessly exhausting. I always ended up with tight knots in my stomach. And guess what? That problem I was so eager to solve using the power of my worrying never materialized. But after many tight knotted, sleepless nights, it hit me. I should concentrate on the worries that I could solve, not the ones I had zero control ove
How to Build Confidence and Self-Esteem Self-Confidence Meaning Self Confidence is a belief on ones abilities. In the purest form it expresses how much belief you have in your own abilities, in any field. You can have great self confidence in your soccer abilities but when it comes to relationships, you are lost. So it varies on the field which we are examining. We all have our strong and weak sides, and that’s okay. The problem begins when we disregard and undervalue ourselves, and lose faith in ourselves. This is what you should focus on, when building self confidence. You should focus on your strong sides and remind yourself of the things you are proud of, of the things that you are very good at. When you focus on the things you are proud of, you start feeling great about yourself and you begin to acknowledge your advantages as well. This leads to strong sense of self-appreciation and confidence. How to Gain Self-Confidence: 5 Essential Ways Do you want to know how to ga